Divorce Bootcamp for Low- and Moderate-Income Women

According to the U.S. Census Bureau, the average woman’s family income drops by 37% after divorce. Do you know what assets, or how much alimony or child support you are entitled to receive? Has your spouse threatened to leave you penniless? Have you spoken to an attorney and gotten sticker-shock? This book was written to help low- and moderate-income women navigate the legal system by walking a hypothetical self-represented woman step-by-step through the divorce process, including:

  • How to prepare financially to stand on your own two feet;
  • What the court can, and cannot do for you;
  • ‘Legwork’ that can save money on legal fees and help you get a better outcome;
  • How much child support and alimony you might be entitled to receive;
  • Custody disputes … ‘fatal flaws’ and how you can fix them.
  • What property you are entitled to receive … and should ask for;
  • Ways vindictive ex-spouses can hide money;
  • Tricks, traps, and pitfalls highlighted so you can avoid them;
  • Mediation and court-connected ADR, benefits and downside;
  • How to combine “a la carte” legal services with your own efforts if you can’t afford to hire a full-service attorney;
  • How to dig up information your spouse doesn’t want you to know (discovery);
  • Soup-to-nuts divorce procedure, starting with negotiating your own divorce,         resolving common issues, all the way through to launching a contested trial;
  • Legal pleadings dissected so you don’t incur a fortune having routine “boilerplate” language explained;
  • “On your feet” hypothetical court hearing scripts so you know what to tell the judge;
  • Restraining orders … how to get one … how to keep one;
  • More…

This soup-to-nuts divorce primer will teach you everything you NEVER wanted to know about divorce … but need to come up to speed … FAST!!! This is the only self-help legal guide written by a woman who was once in your shoes who later went back to school to become an attorney.

BONUS:  links to download, edit and print the two blank Separation Agreements  (with and without children) contained at the end of this book.

KIRKUS: “A solid, informative self-help divorce guide.”

Available at:

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And also independent bookstores, wherever paperback books are sold.

Part of the “Divorce Bootcamp Legal Self-Help” lecture series.

The 6th Edition has been completely updated with the latest case law, including ways to sensitively handle a Christian divorce, caveats regarding same-sex couple custody disputes post-Obergefell, and a completely rewritten Separation Agreement chapter with suggested clauses for unusual situations such as extraordinary school fees, private school or homeschooling.